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19 Jun
Do you “Never Underestimate A Person”? If yes then I would say it’s one of the biggest mistakes in your life.
Never Underestimate A Person By His/Her Looks
Never Underestimate A Person By His/Her Character
Never Underestimate A Person By His/Her Stupidity
Never Underestimate A Person By His/Her Age, Gender, Religion, or Size.
Never Underestimate A Person’s Potential
Never Underestimate A Person’s Desire To Do Something
Never Underestimate The Power Of A Woman
Never Underestimate A Person’s Willpower
and… finally, Never Underestimate YOURSELF!
Did I missed something? Then feel free to leave your comments below!
14 Feb
When it comes to that crucial first date, most men claim to be clueless. Dating is imperative if you are single and so is getting it right the first time.
1) First Impressions: First impression is the best impression. It’s the first non-verbal message that you are getting across, so go ahead, make a good first impression.
a) Dressed For Success: The first thing most women notice is how well dressed you are, so when it comes to dressing, pick what suits you best. A pair of blue jeans and a T-shirt is a good combo. Wear a deo since you might get nervous (especially if it’s your first date ever) and perspire - wet underarm patches may be an eye sore! Gel your hair if you have to but don’t leave it uncombed or ruffled.
b) Venue: While picking a venue, cinema halls or discos are a poor choice for first dates. Instead, pick a venue where you can have a hearty conversation while sitting face to face - like a restaurant or a park.
2) It’s Not All Me, Me, Me… Make sure that the conversation is not centered around you - instead, let it be more about your date or something generic or on topics of common interest. Women do not take a liking to someone who is more focused on himself, they may read this as conceitedness or just plain narcism.
3) Use Her Name Often: Most people like it when someone remembers and refers to them by their first names. Get her name right and use it a lot in your conversation and see how much it impresses.
4) Be A Good Listener: Women love men who are “all ears” when they are speaking. Take an active interest in what your date is talking about and you’ll score big time! Do not look away while she is speaking, she might think you are bored or uninterested. Don’t give her that impression; instead, be receptive and responsive.
5) Good Eye Contact: Look directly into her eyes and speak, instead of looking elsewhere. This conveys the message that you are indeed captivated.
6) Body language: It is very important that your confidence comes across in your body language. Sit up straight; don’t lean too much towards your date. Just take it easy, relax and have fun.
7) Being flirtatious is fine but… Don’t behave like a flirt which would be leaving the wrong impression that you flirt around a lot. Keep it moderate and use intelligent humor if you can because women adore men with a good sense of humor. Ask intelligent questions and not embarrassing ones.
Don’t Discuss About Your Ex: You may have an ex, she may have an ex. Do not bring up the topic of the ex, it’s in the past. Discussing the ex is pointless.
9) Getting Physical: Most importantly, DON’T sleep with her on the first date even though you may badly want to; it is highly unadvisable.
10) Don’t Act Desperate: Finally, whatever you do, don’t display signs of desperation like asking for her number right away. She’ll give it to you, if she wants to know more about you or wants to keep in touch. So keep your dignity intact ’cause women love dignified gentlemen. Remember, good first dates always turn into second dates, So Good Luck!!!